sex and the city: if a guy is a fan of the show, does that automatically make him feminine or gay? in my book, i would have to answer yes. the only exception i can think of is dave, but he's just in a league of his own. seriously dave, there is something wrong with you if you keep checking my webpage. in any case, most women i know are fans of the show and most men i know hate it because of the same reason why i hate it: it's boring. dave argues that the show is really good because the issues are so true and you can relate. please, even if that were true, it's from the WOMAN'S perspective. i mean, it's about four women, a woman wrote it, and there really are no guy main characters. and for the problems that guys can relate to, how many times will that sort of problem happen to me? i mean, c'mon, how many women use me just for sex. how many women use me because i'm so rich and good looking. please. if anything, it makes a guy feel more insecure about himself after watching that show. who are the guys that i know that enjoy the show? oh, if i could only divulge such things on the net.... (note to self: must start working out again)