continuing of what i wrote about yesterday, the analysis of asian hot and asian cute, what i always wanted to look for was neither.

figure 1.a

cute ------------------------(here)-------------------------------hot

most people would want somewhere in between hot and cute. this is where i look for a girl:

figure 1.b

(here)____________cute --------------------------------------------------------hot
^
(note: all girls do not fall within the spectrum of the asian cute and asian hot)

the reason? somewhere in between means they are still a little like either of them. if anything, i'd rather have them more cute than hot, but still WAY outside the spectrum. i guess i would go for a girl that has appeal, cute (not asian cute, but cute looking), intelligent, but definitely not trying to be anything but herself. definitely not naive either. can't be naive.

a good example of how an asian cute girl acts is when girls can't leave the house without wearing make-up. this "cute" girl i used to date refused to see my sister when she visited from the east coast. why? because she wasn't wearing any make-up and didn't want to take the time to put it on. PLUS, she was wearing sweats. i'm not going to go any further about her "cuteness", because everyone thinks she's "SOOO cute" (acting very naive really), but the truth is, she isn't. she's more evil than anyone will ever know. my future girlfriend would not care if she's wearing sweats or not. i hate it when girls judge each other for wearing plain clothes like sweats, and i've only seen it in california. that is just plain dumb, no pun intended even though it was a really bad one.
this is an actual conversation i've had - many times:

XX: "oh my goodness, look at her. she's wearing sweats. i can't believe she's wearing sweats!"
XY: "so?"
XX: "just look! she just looks so gross?!"
XY: "no she doesn't. she's wearing sweats. she's just not superficial like you."

okay, i didn't say that last sentence outloud, but i sure did say it in my head.

so in conclusion, i would never want to pursue, date, or marry a girl that would be considered the asian hot or cute. furthermore, girls in general are really worth the trouble, unless you're over 30 or 40. they really are not. when you get married, then you can spend the rest of your life, every day and every nite with a girl. there is absolutely no need to spend everyday with a girl that you aren't even sure you are going to be with for the rest of your life. enjoy your guy friends, hang out with them, play xbox, drink a beer, don't ever take your guy friends for granted. if you and your girlfriend were meant to be, then a little time away from each other would not hurt at all. it can only help you.
while i'm on the topic, if you ever break up with your girlfriend, the cure is not "trying to be friends with her." everyone, yet nobody, knows this never works. it's hanging out with the bros. i've learned the hard way, yes i have, but there is nothing i appreciate more than hanging out with my bros.

my next blog, i think i'll write about guys and how stupid they are.